Margaret Anne Jordan LaBelle (1925–2021): A Life Story

My grandmother Margaret died last month. Obituaries are expensive, so hers was kept fairly brief. I completely understand that decision, but I also think people deserve to be remembered in more complexity than two paragraphs can offer. So I decided to write Margaret’s Life Story. Aided by the collection of documents, photographs, and memories people shared at the funeral, I’ve been able to put together an extended narrative and photo essay that will, I hope, honor her legacy and help her descendants learn about her life and times long into the future. 

I am posting this today because it would have been Margaret’s 96th birthday. 


An Active Childhood

Margaret Anne Jordan was born April 17, 1925, in St. Paul, Minnesota. She was the eldest child of Basil and Isabelle (Daly) Jordan, who had married in St. Paul the previous July. Margaret grew up on the east side of St. Paul with her younger brother Patrick. She attended St. Patrick Catholic School through eighth grade and then Johnson High School.

Portrait of Margaret and Patrick Jordan, ca. 1929.
Margaret and Patrick Jordan, 1929.
The Jordan family ca. 1932.
Margaret and Patrick picture in a photo booth.
Margaret and Patrick photobooth shot, ca. 1936.
The 8th grade graduating class of St. Patrick Catholic School. Margaret is farthest right in the front row.
The 1939 8th grade graduating class of St. Patrick Catholic School. Margaret is farthest right in the front row.

As a child, Margaret spent a lot of time with her maternal grandparents, Ed and Jane (Reynolds) Daly. In 1924, while Margaret was in utero, her grandparents had moved from a farm near Beardsley, Minnesota, into a house on Edgerton Street, just two blocks away from their soon-to-be granddaughter. 

Some of Margaret’s most lasting childhood memories were of her grandfather. Ed had a job as nightwatchman for the Twin City Rapid Transit Company, which operated the streetcar system in Minneapolis and St. Paul. As an employee, he could ride for free. On his days off, he would ride around town visiting friends and chatting up the waitresses at his favorite restaurant on the corner of University and Snelling. When Margaret was nine or ten, she regularly accompanied him on his social rounds. She got to explore the city and meet all sorts of people. Her grandfather would jokingly introduce her as his “chaperone.” 

Grandpa Ed Daly with Margaret and Patrick, summer 1928.
Grandpa Ed Daly with Margaret and Patrick, summer 1928.
Passengers board a streetcar in St. Paul with the Cathedral of St. Paul in the background.
Passengers getting onto streetcar at west entrance to Selby Tunnel, St. Paul, ca. 1929.
Minnesota Historical Society, http://collections.mnhs.org/cms/display?irn=10732818.

Another distinctive memory Margaret had from around the same age was of clandestine meetings at her house. For sixteen years, from 1928 to 1943, her father Basil worked at the enormous St. Paul Union Stockyards in South St. Paul. During most of his tenure he was a teamster. Early in the Great Depression, he struggled to get enough hours, often working only half days, and Margaret’s mother Isabelle got a job at a local restaurant to help make ends meet. By 1937, Basil had the opposite problem, routinely putting in 60 to 70 hours a week—without overtime pay. (Basil’s compensation record and the rest of his personnel file are archived at the Minnesota Historical Society.) 

The secret gatherings Margaret remembered her father hosting were organizing meetings for the union. Basil’s union activities were part of the broader Twin Cities labor movement of the ’30s. Based on the Minnesota Historical Society’s photograph collection, strikes at the stockyards took place in 1932, 1933, and 1938. Basil may also have taken part in the Teamsters strike of 1934, which was centered in Minneapolis. Margaret and Patrick knew about their father’s meetings but were sworn to secrecy. 

Teamsters lined up at the St. Paul Union Stockyards, 1929.
Minnesota Historical Society, http://collections.mnhs.org/cms/display?irn=10669809.
Member of the workers’ organizing committee speaks during a 1938 strike at the stockyards in South St. Paul.
Minnesota Historical Society, http://collections.mnhs.org/cms/display?irn=10729180.

On November 11, 1940, Margaret was 15 and a freshman at Johnson High. It was a warm morning, so she wore only a skirt and blouse when she left her family’s house on Payne Avenue for her one-mile walk to school. But by the time she had to make the long walk home, a blizzard was raging. She recalled wrapping newspapers around her legs in a futile effort to keep warm. Like many other Minnesotans that day, Margaret survived the Armistice Day Blizzard—but barely. This experience too stuck with her for the rest of her life.

Two women in skirts caught on the streets of Minneapolis during the Armistice Day Blizzard of 1940.
Minnesota Historical Society, http://collections.mnhs.org/cms/display?irn=10750540.

At school, Margaret was a very active student. She took part in Spanish club, bowling club, archery, and was on the Board of the Girls Athletic Association. She was part of a traveling folk dancing group and was also a talented speed skater. Margaret was especially proud of the school letter she earned for athletics at a time when most girls were discouraged from participating in sports. 

A class photo from high school.
Margaret's high school diploma.
A snapshot of her high school diploma.

Margaret graduated from Johnson High in 1943. This was in the middle of World War II. Many of her male classmates went off to basic training and then to Europe or the Pacific. Margaret started working as a Rosie the Riveter. Every day she travelled to Holman Field, an airfield across the Mississippi River from downtown St. Paul. She and several thousand other workers—mostly women—retrofitted B-24 Liberator and B-17 Flying Fortress bombers with high-altitude oxygen and ventilation systems and new, top-secret H2X radar systems.

Margaret (back, facing left) and four other women in a training fuselage, perhaps photographed by staff from the Office of War Information (OWI), at the Northwest Airlines modification center at Holman Field. According to the names written on the back of Margaret’s small photo print, the women in the picture were Carol(?) Boger, Margaret Jordan, Alice Anderson, Dorothy Reiter, and Audrey Hane.
Retrofitted B-24 taking off from Holman Field.
A modified B-24 takes off from Holman Field.
Northwest Airlines via NWA History Center

In the fall of 1943, Margaret’s father Basil quit his job at the stockyards. He, Isabelle, and Patrick moved to Durand, Wisconsin. Since Margaret had a high-paying job at Holman Field, she stayed in St. Paul. She moved in with the family of her aunt Bessie at 331 Geranium Ave. Bessie’s husband Martin Aasen was a butcher at a Swift & Co. packing plant in the same South St. Paul stockyards complex. 

Margaret’s grandfather Edward Daly had died in 1937, but her grandmother Jane Daly now lived with Bessie, Martin, and their 11-year-old son—Margaret’s cousin—Dick. Jane had early-onset dementia, and Margaret helped Bessie care for her until her death in 1945.

Margaret and Patrick with their mother Isabelle (Daly) Jordan and grandmother Jane (Reynolds) Daly, ca. 1932.
Margaret with her mother Isabelle when she was a single, young working woman living with her aunt Bessie.

When the war ended in 1945, all the men came back from overseas. For the rest of her life, Margaret bitterly resented being forced out of a good-paying job and into the role of homemaker. But that’s what she did, and she did it well. 

A Wife and a Mother

Two of Margaret’s good friends from school were Dorothy LaBelle and Dorothy’s first cousin Marge LaBelle. Margaret had met Dorothy’s older brother Gerald back in her school days. She started seeing him after he returned the Pacific. Margaret and Gerald wed on June 20, 1946, at St. Patrick’s Catholic Church in St. Paul—their home church.

Gerald LaBelle in Navy uniform, probably during the winter of 1943—after he enlisted in November ’42, but before he left for basic training? He enlisted with his friend Don Wagner, who married Gerald’s sister (and Margaret’s friend) Dorothy LaBelle in June 1943.
Gerald worked as a machinist aboard the USS Matanikau, a training and transport aircraft carrier in the Pacific, from September 1944 to October 1945. Note his insignia, which shows his rank as Aviation Machinist Mate 3rd Class.
Love birds ’46.
Happy newlyweds.

Five children followed between 1947 and 1958: Gerald, Jr.; Greg; Maureen; Mark; and Ross. Their early years of parenthood were a challenge. Little Jerry, Jr., was born with cerebral palsy after a difficult childbirth. Then, as a small boy, he contracted polio. In 1951, Margaret and Gerald made the difficult decision to appoint a state guardian for Jerry. He lived the rest of his life in state hospitals or group homes before his death in 2005. (This was many years before in-home care for someone with significant disabilities was an option like it is today.) 

Margaret and Gerald with baby Jerry, Jr., 1947.
Margaret with children Greg and Maureen, 1952.

In 1953—after a very brief residence in Belvidere, Illinois—Margaret and Gerald bought a house at 388 Geranium Avenue East in St. Paul, less than a block from the home of Margaret’s aunt Bessie. Margaret would reside in that house for the next 62 years. 

Throughout the 1950s and 1960s, Margaret was a busy mother and an active member of St. Patrick’s Church. As a mother, she did all kinds of creative arts with her kids. She made doll cakes, fancy sugar eggs for Easter, and marzipan candies in the shapes of fruits and vegetables. She was a cub scout den mother. At church, she helped organize and run the fall festival and spaghetti dinners, and she served as one of the “church basement ladies,” cooking countless meals for church functions. If that wasn’t enough to keep her busy, she also occasionally worked as a department store clerk. And she was a regular hostess. Her extended family—especially her many paternal cousins—were regular guests in her home.

LaBelle family portrait, 1954.
Margaret and kids in front of the Tetons during a trip to California to visit Gerald’s parents and sister, August 1961.

On Her Own

Then, in 1969, Gerald abruptly left the family. The ensuing divorce and annulment left lasting scars on everyone in the family, but especially on Margaret. In fact, the divorce went all the way to the Minnesota Supreme Court, where it helped establish case law that is still studied by prospective lawyers today.

In a few short years, Margaret effectively lost her whole family. Her mother Isabelle had died of ovarian cancer in 1967. Her husband abandoned her in 1969. One by one, her children left for the Air Force or college or to live on their own. And now she had to support herself.

Margaret's diploma from the University of Minnesota.
Snapshot of Margaret’s diploma from the University of Minnesota.

In June 1973, Margaret earned a two-year Certificate of Liberal Arts from the University of Minnesota. At age 48, this was one of her proudest accomplishments. She had also recently begun a new job at West Publishing Company. Margaret supported the company’s traveling salesmen, making sure they had everything they needed while on the road and arranging supply shipments as needed. It wasn’t the professional career she had envisioned for herself in 1945, but it paid the bills. And she made several good friends there. Margaret stayed at West Publishing until she retired in June 1990. 

Margaret with her daughter Maureen and father Basil, Christmas 1976 at her house on Geranium Avenue.

Besides working, Margaret rededicated herself in her Catholic faith. She continued to volunteer at church, and she became a member of the Legion of Mary, an association of Catholics dedicated to spiritual and social welfare through prayer and apostolic works. 

After she retired, Margaret went on numerous pilgrimages to important Catholic sites in North and South America, often with her friend Ceile Swenson. They visited sites up and down the U.S. East Coast and in South Bend, Indiana. In 1994, they visited Our Lady of Guadalupe in Mexico City and a year later traveled to the Shrine of Betania in Cúa, Venezuela, the location of thousands of apparitions of the Virgin Mary and a Miracle of the Eucharist Host. Then in 2000, they traveled to Birmingham, Alabama, to join the studio audience as Mother Angelica filmed an episode of her famous TV show, which was broadcast on the Eternal Word Television Network (EWTN). While in Alabama, Margaret and Ceile also stopped at Our Lady of the Angels Monastery and the newly built Shrine of the Most Blessed Sacrament, both of which—like the EWTN network—had been established by Mother Angelica.

A few years later, Margaret took a different kind of trip. In 2004, when Margaret was 79, she had the pleasure to visit Ireland with her cousins Colleen and Cindy. Margaret was enormously proud of her Irish heritage—every branch of her family tree traced back to the Emerald Isle—so this was the trip of a lifetime for her.

A very cold and wet Margaret visiting the Giant’s Causeway in Northern Ireland, 2004.
Margaret’s Irish heritage touched every corner of the Emerald Isle. This map shows the (known) locations Margaret’s immigrant ancestors left behind in Ireland.

Inevitably, age eventually caught up to Margaret. In 2015, after 62 years in her house on Geranium Avenue and 90 years(!) as a member of St. Patrick’s church, Margaret moved into Cherrywood Pointe of Forest Lake. She lived independently until age 92, and then in assisted living until her death.

When she was in her 90s, her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren enjoyed celebrating each birthday with her (except for her 95th, which was cancelled due to the COVID-19 pandemic). Her family brought brunch, played games, and kept counting higher every year! 

Margaret with seven of her eight great-grandchildren celebrating her 91st birthday in April 2016. (An eighth and final great-grandchild would be born in 2018.)

She was a tough woman to the end. She survived a heart attack at age 85—followed by a triple bypass and surgery to clear her carotid arteries—a stroke at 86, and numerous serious illnesses in her 90s, including influenza. Even in her last week of life, she told visitors she planned to get better. The hardest part of her final years was the dementia which took hold after her stroke. But while her short-term memory failed, she could still remember details about being a child and young adult. During one visit in October 2019, I recorded her talking about her experiences in the 1930s and 1940s. That discussion informed some of this story. 

Margaret Anne LaBelle died peacefully in her sleep, March 9, 2021, at Cherrywood Pointe of Forest Lake, following two months under the compassionate care of Ecumen Hospice.

A Difficult Life, But a Life Well Lived

A simple narrative like this can never capture the full picture of a person’s life. Margaret had a wide range of hobbies and interests. A true Minnesotan, she liked to fish. She loved reading, especially biographies and histories. From an early age, she had a fondness for painting, sewing, and gardening. She loved clothing and jewelry and collected all sorts of outfits over the years.

Margaret was generous—almost to a fault. She supported dozens if not hundreds of charitable causes in her life (perhaps including a few fraudulent ones). At Thanksgiving, she would gladly invite anyone in the neighborhood who had no place else to go. Even late in life—when she was well into her 80s—Margaret offered a room in her house to someone in need.

She was predeceased by her parents, brother Pat, and son Jerry, Jr. She is survived by her children Greg (Johnny), Maureen (Wes) Vanek, Mark (Jenny), Ross (Joni); grandchildren Erik (Jennifer) LaBelle, Carrie (Tim) Hill, John (Pam) Vanek; and great-grandchildren Ally, Cece, Lucy, and JJ LaBelle, Carson and Caleb Hill, and Eliza and Lena Vanek, as well as other family and friends. 

Margaret was buried Friday, March 12, 2021, in Resurrection Cemetery in Mendota Heights, next to her son Jerry LaBelle, Jr. Paul bearers were Ross LaBelle, Wes Vanek, John Vanek, Carrie Hill, Erik LaBelle, and Ally LaBelle. Due to COVID-19 restrictions, only Margaret’s immediate family attended the funeral. Margaret went out as she came in, a proud Irish Catholic. Father Tom Fitzgerald led her funeral service. And, at Margaret’s request, the service was full of Irish music: “Danny Boy,” Carrickfergus,” “Into the Mystic,” the ancient Irish hymn “Be Thou My Vision,” and the jig “The Irish Washerwoman,” among others.

Choosing a Baby Name from the Family Tree — The Results!

It’s been just over six months since our second child was born, and I owe my blog readers a follow-up post about what name we chose!

In my earlier post, I wrote about some of the characteristics we looked for in names for our children. Obviously, as a genealogist, it was important to me that the names come from somewhere in our family tree. We also took into consideration popularity, cultural origin and meaning, spelling, initials, and more.

So what did we choose for baby #2?

Meet Lena Maureen.

A More Difficult Decision

We still had our boy’s name from the first time around, and we still liked it. Since we weren’t going to find out the sex ahead of time, we had to pick another girl’s name to cover that possibility. Choosing another girl’s name was much harder than the first time around. With our first child, my wife and I both liked the name Eliza and agreed on it without much discussion. This time, when we shared our short lists for another girl’s name with one another we found zero overlap. And Lena wasn’t on either list!

The reason Lena wasn’t on either list is that none of our ancestors were formally named Lena. The name emerged late in the game as I combed through the family tree again looking for a compromise.

Helen Clauson protrait, wearing traditional Norwegian garb.

The top name on my wife’s list was Helen, after her great-grandmother Helen Clauson (1884-1963). Looking at Helen more closely I had something of an epiphany. In the U.S., she went by Helen, but she had been baptized in Norway under the name Jakobine Helene Klausdatter. Listen to how that sounds in Norwegian (click the speaker button under Norwegian). Yah’-ko-bee’-nah Heh-leh’-neh.

I then recalled that a number of our other ancestors up several different branches of the family tree were nicknamed Lena. There was German immigrant Helena “Lena” Schultz (maiden name Krieg or Krug or Knag or something; ca1801-1887), my wife’s 3x-great-grandmother. There was also Melina “Lena” Marier (1883-1955), a 2x-great-grandmother on my French-Canadian side. And on my dad’s Old-Stock American side can be found the similar name Laney, belonging to my 4x-great-grandmother Laney Dunham (ca1817-1887).

Jakobine Helene Klausdatter’s baptism record. Sogn of Fjordane fylke, Gulen i Gulen, Klokkerbok nr. B 3 (1884-1907), Fodte of dopte 1884, side 7.

1865 Minnesota census, Woodland Township, Wright County, Minnesota, p. 3, family no. 23, family of Henry Bremer. Image snipped from digital version on Ancestry.com.

1900 U.S. census, Oneka Township, Washington County, Minnesota, sheet 9B, family no. 151, household of Camille Marrier. Image snipped from digital version on Ancestry.com.

Harrison County, Ohio, Marriage records, 1828-1840 Vol B, p. 310. Marriage of Nelson Whitten and Laney Dunham 29 Sep 1833, recorded 15 Nov 1833. Image snipped from Familysearch.org.

1910 U.S. census, Ashley Township, Stearns County, Minnesota, sheet 3A, family no. 40, household of Peter Steffes. Digital image from Ancestry.com.

I liked Lena as a name better than most of the names on my wife’s list. What really sold me was that we had found a single name that drew from our daughter’s German, Norwegian, French-Canadian, and English heritage. Now we were talking! My wife liked the name too, and it helped that it derived from her top choice Helen. (Later, after we had agreed on Lena as the name, I was reminded that my biological father’s grandmother Helen Steffes [1905-1977] had been called Lena as a girl. This name draws on nearly every branch of our daughter’s family tree.)

Of course, we still needed to agree on a middle name. And we still had to check all the other naming factors to make sure we didn’t overlook something.

Passing the other tests

The middle name was easy enough. Since our first daughter’s middle name came from my wife’s close family (Pauline, after my wife’s feisty grandma), our second daughter’s middle name would come from my immediate family. It came down to a decision between my mother’s name, Maureen, and my paternal grandmother’s middle name, Lucille. I still like Lena Lucille, but I ultimately decided my mom deserved the honor. She has done a lot in her lifetime to build and maintain family relationships, despite some significant challenges. Passing her name on to Lena serves as a legacy to how important family has always been to her. Plus, the name Maureen is an Irish variation of Mary, so Lena’s full name effectively represents nearly all of her heritage: Norwegian, German, French-Canadian, English, and Irish (with a Czech last name!). Only a direct link to her Dutch ancestry is missing.

Lena also fit most of our other criteria quite nicely.

Popularity—According to Social Security Administration data, Lena was the 304th-most popular baby name in 2017. (For comparison, Eliza ranked 212th in 2014, the year before she was born.) It’s definitely not a Top 10 name, but it’s also not unheard of. People are familiar with it. Perfect.

Functionality—Lena is short and easy to spell. It’s cute for a kid (we call her Lena Bear because of all her hair!) and will look just fine on a resume when she’s applying for jobs.

Initials—L.M.V. doesn’t spell a word. If pronounced, it doesn’t sound like a word. The acronym doesn’t have any widely known associations. All good things!

Meaning—Though Lena has been a common nickname for centuries, it ultimately derives from several other more ancient names. Most often, Lena is a short form of Helena or Magdalena, names which have different origins. Helena—which is the relevant source in our heritage—derives from Greek Helene. In Greek, the name possibly means “light” or “torch,” or more specifically “corposant,” which refers to the electrical glow also known as St. Elmo’s fire that sometimes appears on ships masts and other elevated things during storms. The name’s most famous bearer was of course Helen of Troy, beauty of beauties, whose abduction (or elopement) instigated the Trojan War.

The name Laney derives from the same root. Laney is an English diminutive of the Arthurian name Elaine, which itself is an Old French form of Helen. (If instead Laney Dunham’s given name was actually “Adelana,” as it was recorded only once, in the 1860 census, then the root would be the Germanic element adal meaning “noble.”)

The name Magdalena originated with the Biblical character Mary Magdalene, whose second name means “of Magdala,” a town on the Sea of Galilee. I have a least a dozen distant French-Canadian ancestors named Marie Magdeleine, but they’re not the reason we chose the name Lena.

Much more relevant was the given name of my 2x-great grandmother Lena Dupre. She was baptized as Marie Melina Marier and gave Melina as her name on her marriage license. Apart from official documents, she was called simply “Lena.” The name Melina, like Melissa and Melanie, derives from the Greek word meli, meaning honey. Melina is a diminutive form meaning “little honey.”

Taken together, these meanings further convinced me that this was the right name for our daughter. Our Lena would be a light to the world, and not just any light, but a kind seen only rarely, under exceptional circumstances. She would be noble and forthright but also sweet (like honey), her heart filled with kindness. She would be bold and beautiful like Helen of Troy, and maybe just maybe change the course of world history as much as that Helen did. Whether any of this actually pans out waits to be seen. These ideals, at least, will shape how we raise her.

Spelling and Pronunciation—All of our ancestors spelled the nickname Lena the same way—L-E-N-A—so there wasn’t any debate here. The real underlying issue, as we’ve discovered, is pronunciation.

If there is an area of concern with the name Lena it is ambiguous pronunciation. Admittedly, this did not occur to my wife and me. When we discussed the name, we both used the same pronunciation: lay-nuh. We assumed (wrongly) that since we were native speakers of American English, we must have picked this up correctly. However, since Lena’s birth, many people have initially greeted her as lee-nuh. The automated appointment reminder from the doctor’s office says lee-nuh. Yes, we were aware of the old Ole and Lena jokes, which used to be especially popular here in Minnesota. In those jokes, the accent of Scandinavian immigrants is exaggerated for effect [Oh-laaaay and Leeee-nuh]. But our generation doesn’t use them. They’re finally on their way out.

I suspect my intuitive pronunciation of lay-nuh is due to my being much more tuned-in to the name’s European origins than most Americans. In Europe it’s leh-nuh or lay-nuh. In my head, lee-nuh would be written Lina.   A comment by user HungarianNameGeek on Babynamewizard.com’s page for “Lena” states the issue succinctly:

The letter ‘e’ has two possible values in many European languages: /eh/ like in ‘set’ (or the Greek letter epsilon), or /ay/ like the vowel in ‘say’ (or the Greek letter eta). Thus, from Europeans you’re about equally likely to get LEH-na or LAY-na. It’s really only in English that LEE-na is a possibility, due to the Great English Vowel Shift; in most other languages, you’d need to write it as Lina to get it pronounced with an /ee/.

My first guess would be LEH-na, I think, but most likely I’d try to wait for someone else to say it first – and then I’d promptly forget which version it was.

If you can have a Zen attitude that LEE-na, LEH-na, and LAY-na are all correct, just in different languages or accents, then Lena is a lovely name. (I especially like it as a nickname for Magdalena or Helena.)

Look at the ancestors from whom we drew the name. The only one we believe pronounced her name lee-nuh was Lena Marier. In her case the /ee/ sound derived from a full name (Melina) where the sound was represented by ‘i,’ as one would expect from people whose native language was French. I knew Lena Marier pronounced her name lee-nuh, but because Melina is much less common than Helena or Magdalena AND is spelled with an ‘i,’ I assumed it was the outlier.

Anyway, we decided just to go with the Zen attitude. If having her name slightly mispronounced the first time she meets someone is the worst thing in her life, then our Lena will be doing just fine. We’ve told several friends to think of it as we do, as a nickname for Helena or Magdalena or Adelana, and that has seemed to help.

Mini Ancestor Bios

The final piece of the naming puzzle was to examine the lives of the ancestors who carried the name. What inspiring stories about them can we share with our daughter as she grows up? Here are brief biographies that give a glimpse into the lives and characters of the four women who most directly inspired our daughter’s name.

Jakobine Helene Klausdatter Hantveit was born in 1884 on Hantveit farm in the municipality of Gulen, Norway. She grew up looking out over Gulenfjord not far from the site of the ancient Gulating. As a girl, she spent her summers up in the mountains on a seter, a seasonal pasture farm, where she helped milk the goats.

Wedding photo of Louis Olai Henricksen and Helen Clauson, 1909.

One of her schoolmates in Gulen was a boy named Louis Henrickson. Louis came from a very poor family—so poor, in fact, that he and his sister Lise were raised by an uncle. According to their daughter Marvis, “after their schooling [Helen and Louis] wanted to get married, but Helen’s parents did not feel that Louis was good enough for her.” So in 1906 Helen’s parents shipped her off to America to live with her uncle near Glenwood, Minnesota. An emigration record from Bergen, Norway, reports that Helen was going to America for bedre fortj, “better fortunes,” which from her parents’ perspectives meant better marriage prospects. According to Marvis, before Helen departed Louis gave her a friendship ring.

In what must have been a great surprise, Louis arrived in Minnesota just a year later. Apparently too poor to pay his own way, he had nonetheless made it happen. He had found an old friend who already lived in Minnesota—not far from Helen as it turned out—who was willing to pay his passage. (Had Helen secretly contributed?) Once in Minnesota, Louis put the carpentry skills he had learned from his uncle to work to earn a living. He found Helen, who was earning her own keep working in a laundry in Glenwood, and the two of them married there in 1909, far beyond the reach of Helen’s parents. They “lived happily ever after,” wrote their daughter Marvis.

Helena “Lena” Krug/Krieg/Knag (her maiden name is difficult to read and/or appears different in different documents) was born somewhere in the northern German region of Mecklenberg around 1801. In Germany she married Heinrich Schultz and together they had at least three children. The Schultz family emigrated in about 1857 or 1858, settling first in upstate New York. Her son Ludwig enlisted to fight in the 57th New York Infantry during the Civil War.

After Ludwig mustered out in 1864, Lena and her family moved west to settle near the village of Waverly in Wright County, Minnesota. I believe the Homestead Act drew them west. After Heinrich died in 1867, Lena finished the Homestead process. According to one of the Schultz children, soon after their arrival in Waverly, the family “conducted a boarding house for laborers engaged in laying the railroad tracks through the village. Among their patrons was James J. Hill,” Minnesota’s most famous railroad tycoon. Lena lived with one or another of her children in Wright County until her own death there in 1887.

Marie Melina “Lena” Marier was born in Centerville, Minnesota, in 1883, the first of fourteen children of Camille Alphonse Marier and Marie Angelique Forcier. Her mother was just 16 years old and her father 18 when she was born. Though Lena’s mother’s family had been in Minnesota since 1847, Lena’s father and all of her grandparents had been born in Quebec. When she was 18, Lena married Oliver Delphis Dupre, an American-born man who also had fully French-Canadian heritage. French was the family’s primary language while Lena was growing up, and indeed for her whole life. Lena’s eldest daughter Alice reported that she didn’t know any English until she started school in about 1908.

Lena Marier Dupre’s life was arguably the most challenging of any of these women. The Dupres were dirt poor. As a married couple, she and Delphis lived on a small farm plot right next to railroad tracks in a two-room house that lacked insulation. Lena’s daughter Alice, born in 1903, remembered,

The only heat we had upstairs would come through a small grate above the wood heater that was downstairs. Believe me, we didn’t play around when we were getting dressed. . . . We survived several winters there. There were no iceboxes for the summer, only the flowing well or spring.

We led a happy life there on the farm, but it was a lot of work for my mother. In order to cook she had to get the kitchen range quite hot, . . . and most of the time it was three meals a day. She had big washings and a lot of ironing. My father had help [farmhands] too, his dad stayed with us, and now and then his brother (my uncle Evod and his wife Stella) would come for a while, especially in the summer. So we were quite a few around the table, and if there were too many, the children would have to wait until the grown-ups were finished.

In 1918, Delphis was killed in a hunting accident, leaving Lena with eight children ages three-months to 14 years. To help the family survive, she took a job “at the hotel in Forest Lake [since] she could walk there. . . . When there was extra soup left over, the hotel keeper would give it to her.” While Lena worked, teenager Alice took care of all the younger kids. Alice never went back to school. Later, to help the family survive, Lena “bought a sewing machine and sewed for [our family] and for others.” Things finally got a little easier once more of Lena’s children were old enough to help support her. She got them through the toughest years.

More accurately titled “Marier five-generation, 1932.” Lena is in the middle, age 49. On the left are her grandfather Damien Marier (age 93) and father Camille Marier (67), and on the right are her eldest daughter Alice Dupre (29) and grandson Gerald LaBelle (my grandfather, 10).

Laney Dunham was born around 1817 probably in Smithfield, Jefferson County, Ohio. (The 1860 census hints that her full name might have been “Adelana,” but all other records show her name as Laney.) Her parents had migrated from western Maryland to Jefferson County in eastern Ohio during the first decade of the 1800s. In 1820, her father purchased federal land a little bit further west in Harrison County, Ohio, and Laney grew up on a farm there. In 1833, she married Nelson Whitten, a young man from a neighboring family.

Laney (Dunham) Green’s gravestone in Swiggett Cemetery, New Salem Township, Pike County, Illinois. Photo from Ancestry.com, uploaded by user claymont 13 Nov 2013.

The Dunham, Whitten, Carnes, Nelson, Chaney, and other related families were early converts to the United Brethren Church. In fact, Laney’s brothers Abel and Joshua Dunham both became ministers for the church. We don’t know what Laney’s political beliefs were, but if they were anything like the men around her she was probably a reformer and a strong supporter of the Union cause in the Civil War. Her brother Abel was known to be a staunch abolitionist and was later a proponent of the temperance movement. Her son Nathaniel Whitten volunteered for service in Company I of the 33rd Illinois Infantry regiment in September 1861, and was discharged for disability in 1863.

Arguably the defining feature of Laney Dunham’s life was widowhood. Her first husband Nelson Whitten died when he was only in his 30s. It is unclear where he died. Sometime in the late 1840s, Laney and possibly Nelson joined a caravan of extended family who all went west to buy farmland in Pike County in western Illinois. Perhaps during the journey and certainly within a few years of their arrival in Illinois, Nelson died, leaving Laney a widow with five young children. Laney married again in 1850 to Andrew Gansley, a man twenty years her senior. Within a few years he died, and Laney remarried again in 1854. Her third husband, Henry Green, was almost twenty years younger than she was—young enough to enlist in the Civil War. They had one child together in 1856. In September 1861, Henry joined his stepson Nathaniel Whitten in the 33rd Illinois Infantry. He was killed a year later near Bolivar, Mississippi, as the steamboat he was on was fired on by 2,000 rebel soldiers perched high above on the Mississippi River levee.

Laney had lost three husbands before she turned 46. If there was any consolation, it was that her last husband had died in the line of duty. For the rest of her life she received a widow’s pension of $8 dollars per month. She never remarried.

 

When I think of words that describe these four women, several come to mind: perseverance, resourcefulness, independence. In an era in which women’s lives were largely controlled or defined by fathers and husbands, each of these women demonstrated the ability to survive on her own and to make her own decisions. Helen Clauson was adamant enough about her choice of marriage partner that her parents sent her across an ocean to prevent it. The two of them found a way to be together anyway. The other three women survived as widows for decades. Lena (Krug) Schultz completed her husband’s Homestead claim. Lena Marier worked impossibly hard to keep her eight children fed and clothed after her husband’s accidental death. Laney Dunham endured the deaths of three husbands, but still had the courage to get up every morning to live another day. I certainly don’t wish my daughter to endure the same struggles these ancestors faced, but if she faces her own struggles like they did, with perseverance, resourcefulness, and independence, she will find success and happiness.

(Whew, all this about a baby name? I guess it’s just who I am.)

Choosing a Baby Name from the Family Tree

Mrs. GeneaLOGIC and I are expecting!

You know what that means. It’s time to dive into the family tree to find potential baby names.

How people choose names

Naming a child is a special event. The name we choose will shape other people’s first impressions of him or her from day one and it will affect our child’s self-identity as s/he grows up. It’s a big decision. We took it seriously with our first child, a daughter named Eliza, and we’re taking it seriously again. But how should we choose the best name?

Some people choose names that are popular at the moment. We all know the names that were popular when we went to school. Linda and Bob? 1950s. Jennifer and David? 1970s. I bet you can guess my age pretty accurately if I I tell you is that I was high school friends with triplets named Amanda, Megan, and Sara.

Other people name their children after famous or important contemporary figures. How many of you have a George Washington [Surname] or Thomas Jefferson [Surname] in your family tree? One collateral family in my tree contains sons named John Wesley Nelson, Columbus Washington Nelson, Henry Clay Nelson, George Washington Harrison Nelson, and Zachariah Winfield Santa-Anna Nelson, among others. In the last instance, the parents obviously couldn’t decide which Mexican-American War general they wanted to honor and decided to reference them all.

Zachariah Winfield Santa Anna Nelson's name cropped from his death certificate
Zachariah Winfield Santa Anna Nelson’s name cropped from his 1921 death certificate. Virginia Death Certificates, Ashby, Shenandoah County, primary registration district 851a, file 4446. From Virginia, Death Records, 1912-2014 on Ancestry.com.

Many names from European cultures originally carried a literal meaning. Today, people generally don’t know the underlying meaning of most names and only go searching when expecting a baby. But even though people don’t know such meanings by heart, they still affect which names many parents choose for their children.

Biblical names like John or Elizabeth derive from Hebrew and in their original language typically spelled out the child’s relationship to God: Yochanan, “Yahveh is gracious,” or ‘Elisheva’, “My God is abundance.” Most Western versions of Hebrew names passed into common use via a Bible written in Greek or Latin, and so we have inherited Johannes (Latin from Greek) and John rather than Yochanan, and Elisabet (Greek) rather than ‘Elisheva’. For many Christians through the ages, the underlying Hebrew meaning was less important than the name’s association with important Biblical characters.

Other familiar English names originated from archaic forms of Celtic, Germanic, Greek, Italic, or Slavic languages. They likewise originally carried a literal meaning or referred to nature or divinity. Frederick, for example, derives from two Germanic components, frid “peace” and ric, “ruler.” Fiona comes from the Irish word fion, meaning “vine.” Danica was a Slavic personification of the Morning Star, Venus. And so on.

Immigrant groups from outside Europe are adding new names to America’s pool of names and meanings every day. To give just one example, a state congressional district here in Minnesota recently elected former Somali refugee Ilhan Omar as its representative. Fittingly for a politician, her given name means “to state something eloquently” in Arabic. Several names more commonly found in African-American families, such a Imani and Tariq, also derive ultimately from Arabic words and may reflect a much older link to the Muslim communities of East Africa.

For genealogists, family names are especially important. Because our family trees are bigger and we often know them by heart, we typically have more family names to choose from. We can dig deeper into the past to find the best fit. Indeed, one of my stipulations is that the names we choose must come from somewhere in our child’s direct ancestry.

Baby GeneaLOGIC's family tree
Baby GeneaLOGIC’s family tree.

Having said that, choosing a family name is just one of several important factors. There are practical things to consider like spelling in elementary school and job applications as an adult. Here are the general criteria we are using to choose names for for our children, in rough order of importance. (We never formally spelled it out like this. This is essentially a summary of many conversations over dinner and before bed.)

  1. A name we both like
  2. Goes well with our last name (probably no alliteration)
  3. From a direct ancestor (ideally a person who led an interesting or inspiring life)
  4. Sounds cute for a kid AND respectable for an adult. It has to look good on a resume.
  5. Standard spelling. Sorry to all the Jaiessuns out there, but why make a simple name more complicated?
  6. Not in the Top 10 most popular. No offense to the Lindas of the 1950s or the Liams of today, but we don’t want our child to share his or her name with half the school room. A certain degree of individuality is a good thing.
  7. Not too obscure for the United States in the 21st century. (The flip side of #6.)
  8. Ancient/original meaning is fitting and aligns with our values
  9. Initials don’t spell something unfortunate

This genealogist’s first attempt

We named our first daughter Eliza Pauline. It was important to me as a genealogist to find meaning in the names we chose from the personalities or life histories of the namesake ancestors. Ultimately, that’s why we do genealogy, isn’t it? Our ancestors don’t care whether we remember them. They’re dead. But we find meaning in their lives. They help us figure out our place in the world. They may have passed skills or personality traits down to us. They can teach us how to live (or how not to live). Choosing a name of an ancestor for a new child reflects how we, as parents, understand our heritage right now.

The name Eliza comes from my side of the family and Pauline from my wife’s. There are two Elizas in our daughter’s direct ancestry.

Eliza Nelson Carnes headstone in Swiggett Cemetery, New Salem, Pike County, Illinois.
Eliza Nelson Carnes headstone in Swiggett Cemetery, New Salem, Pike County, Illinois. Image posted on Findagrave.com by user Linda Simpson Davidson 03 Dec 2012; photograph taken May 2008.

Eliza Nelson is my 4x-great-grandmother on my dad’s old-stock American side. She was born around 1810 probably in Frederick County, Maryland. I don’t know many details of her life. In fact, I only have three primary sources that give her name: an 1831 marriage record from Harrison County, Ohio; the 1850 census from Pike County, Illinois; and her gravestone, erected presumably in 1857 when she was buried.

Eliza Kinney was born to Irish immigrants in Canada around 1845. She is my 3x-great-grandmother on my mom’s Irish side. Eliza moved many times in her life. As a girl, she traveled with her parents from Canada to Vermont and then to northern Pennsylvania. In 1864, alongside her new husband James Daly, she moved west to settle with her new family in southern Wisconsin. She left her parents and many siblings behind in Pennsylvania. Only five years later, Eliza was on the move again, this time traveling farther west to cut a new farm out of the prairie in southwestern Minnesota. By age 30, Eliza had already made five major cross-country moves—all without automobiles and mostly without trains. Later in life, Eliza’s family made a final move, another 100+ miles northwest to a farm near the South Dakota border. This Eliza is also a bit of an enigma. After her husband’s death in 1913, I can’t find her again. Her gravestone, marked “1845-1931,” is the only evidence of her whereabouts after 1913.

Though we don’t know much about the personality of either Eliza, we can still draw meaning from their stories. Both Elizas were migrants, especially Eliza Kinney. Like her namesakes, we hope our daughter Eliza goes where life takes her, or rather, takes her life where she want it to go, wherever that may be. Like her ancestors, we hope she grows up to change her own circumstances for the better.

Family photograph of Pauline Shoultz outside home, 1940s.
Family photograph of Pauline Shoultz outside home, 1940s.

Pauline Shoultz was my wife’s grandmother. We know a lot more about her personality. Even though she was an “old” grandma (she was almost 71 when my wife was born) my wife and her sister got to spend a lot of time with Pauline while they were growing up. I also got to know her a little bit before she passed away. She was a spirited if uncompromising woman of fully German descent. My wife remembered her this way. “She wasn’t like other people’s grandmas—polite, sweet. She was a spitfire with her own sense of humor. Grandma Pauline wasn’t a proper lady. She liked sports and hanging with the old guys at the coffee shop. She said a lot of really funny things, intentionally and unintentionally. At the same time, she was an emotional rock, steadfast and determined.” These qualities helped her live to be 98 years old.

When our daughter Eliza Pauline is a little older, we’ll explain to her why we chose the names we did. We’ll teach her about her ancestors. We’ll share our desire for her to grow into an adventurous, independent woman who is also kind, loving, and loyal.

Great family names . . . for someone else’s child

Yes, we like old family names. There aren’t a lot of Elizas or Paulines these days, but both names fit the resurgence of names that were popular around 1900.  Of course, not all old family names make good names in 21st century America. My wife’s 2x-great-grandmother was named Svanhilde. It’s a unique old Scandinavian name that was first documented in the 18th century in the same county in western Norway where our Svanhilde lived. (Her grandmother, born in 1775, was also named Svanhilde and may have been the first recorded bearer of the name since the Viking-age sagas.) I have teased my wife about naming our next child Svanhilde so much that she is frankly tired of the humor. (I think she’s taking our naming duty more seriously than I am.)

With Svanhilde at the head of the list, here’s a list of old family names we will not be using for our next child (but that I like to threaten to write on the birth certificate while my wife is still recovering):

Svanhilde Mathiasdatter portrait
Family photograph of Svanhilde Mathiasdatter (1841-1914), after whom we will NOT be naming our next child. (Sorry, Svanhilde. I’m sure you were a lovely lady.)

Female

  • Svanhilde
  • Olga
  • Josephte
  • Ambjør
  • Euphroseine
  • Orlaug
  • Jacquette

Male

  • Ladislav
  • Asbjørn
  • Ole
  • Václav
  • Mareen
  • Désiré
  • Burgess
  • Vavřinec
  • Gunnar
  • Livinus

Yes, all of these are given names in our future child’s direct ancestry. Most of them sound distinctively “ethnic” in 21st century America. That isn’t necessarily a bad thing. For example, searching the Social Security baby names lists for a few other “ethnic” names from our family tree, I discovered that more than 550 American girls were named Ingrid in 2008 and more than 650 boys were named Johan in 2016. Bridget is an evergreen name of Gaelic/Irish origin.

That said, such names do tend to raise questions about where a person is from. Svanhilde, Ambjør, Orlaug, Asbjørn, and Ole are all Norwegian in origin. (They’re “old” names in Norway now, too.) Gunnar is Swedish. Désiré and Livinus are Dutch/Flemish. Ladislav, Václav, Vavřinec, and Olga are names of some of my Czech ancestors. Josephte is a distinctively French-Canadian female name while Euphroseine is a Greek name carried by a handful of my female French-Canadian ancestors. Mareen was a French Huguenot man who settled in colonial Maryland. Burgess is an archaic given name of Scottish or English origin and the given name of Eliza Nelson’s paternal grandfather. All are interesting names for different reasons, but none fit our family in this time and this place.

So which name will we choose for baby #2? Well, you’ll have to wait for a birth announcement! We still have the boy name we chose from my wife’s first pregnancy (and we still like it). We recently agreed upon another girl name. I think we also recently agreed that, just like our first pregnancy, we won’t find out the baby’s sex until s/he is born. We like the mystery. Doing it the old fashioned way also makes naming the child a part of the birth event itself. I still remember calling Eliza by her name for the first time right after she was born. It was moment I’ll never forget.

The Obsolescence of Microfilm

For anyone who called herself a genealogist in the past century, spooling microfilm onto a special microfilm reader and scrolling through its pages was a rite of passage. Finding a record of your long-lost ancestor hundreds of pages into the roll was something to celebrate. But it’s the beginning of the end of the microfilm era. A major sign of the transition appeared a couple days ago.

On Monday, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (LDS) announced that it would suspend distribution of microfilm rolls on September 1, 2017. The church, which incorporates genealogy into its theology, owns about 2.5 million rolls of microfilm full of genealogical data from all over the world. For the past 80 years, the church has distributed microfilm rolls to designated research centers upon request, to the great benefit of genealogists everywhere.

Microfilm has so many benefits. It condenses information and saves archival space. It allows users to see faithful copies of original documents without risk of damaging the originals (and with very little risk of damaging the microfilm itself.)  It allows the contents of parish record books and other large documents to be sent through the mail at minimal cost. Its material components decay very slowly.

But these are not exclusive benefits. Many of them apply to digital information too. And that, indeed, is the future for LDS collections. According to the official LDS statement, “The change is the result of significant progress made in FamilySearch’s microfilm digitization efforts and the obsolescence of microfilm technology.” The church has already digitized more than 1.5 million microforms, with most of them available online at FamilySearch.org for browsing or searching. The rest, says the statement, “should be digitized by the end of 2020.” Three-and-a-half years of waiting isn’t that long for genealogists. I mean, we’re already halfway to the release of the 1950 census on April 1, 2022, and that seems (to me at least) like it’s just around the corner.

For me, the discontinuation of microfilm distribution raises two questions, one immediate and practical and one more general. First, why not continue distribution of undigitized rolls until 2020 for the sake of accessibility? The whole point of both microfilm distribution and digitization is accessibility, right? Well, LDS has a solid answer to this  question on a related FAQ page. Below is their  explanation. I included it in full because it gets to the heart of the bigger issue of obsolescence.

The microfilm industry has been in decline for a couple of decades since the advent of digitization. The cost of vesicular film used to duplicate microfilm for circulation has risen dramatically while demand has decreased significantly. At the same time, it has become increasingly difficult and costly to maintain the equipment, systems, and processes required for film duplication, distribution, and access. It is not feasible for FamilySearch to continue the microfilm distribution service for longer than it already has. Meanwhile, digitization is nearing completion and many of the records FamilySearch has not yet digitized are available on other websites accessible to FamilySearch patrons. By reinvesting resources in digital efforts, FamilySearch can accelerate and improve electronic access.

Microfilm is dying for economic reasons, plain and simple. Microfilm technology is now a niche market. Production equipment, replacement parts, and people with the proper skills to maintain microform technologies are all harder to find, which puts a premium price on the whole niche. It is easy to understand how the church arrived at its current solution.

John in the Minnesota Historical Society Library
Researching family history using microfilm in the Minnesota Historical Society Library.

The other question raised by the LDS discontinuation of microfilm distribution is about the future of microfilm itself. The technology is still widely used in libraries and archives around the country (and LDS microfilm collections will continue to be available at the Family History Library in Salt Lake City). I still use microfilm all the time at the Minnesota Historical Society to search for death certificates, naturalization papers, historical Minnesota newspapers, and more.

Microfilm has a few advantages not shared with digital images. Most notably, microfilm is an analog technology. All you need to read it is a good light source and a magnifying glass. Digital archiving, in fact, presents a much more complicated system of preservation in the long run. File types and software change frequently, so that obsolescence is just as much of a threat to digital media. And just like physical objects, digital objects decay with use. Obviously, the advantages of digital media (color, share-ability, ease of access) more than compensate for the new challenges it presents. Yet I wonder if―because of its simplicity―microfilm will continue to have a place in libraries and archives, including genealogical archives, for decades more. Maybe the end of ordering LDS microfilm rolls isn’t quite the end of the microfilm era.

23andMe’s Ancestry Timeline vs. Reality

Beware of ethnicity estimates, especially the new timeline one from 23 and Me. (Here’s another genetic genealogist’s case study of how unreliable 23 and Me’s new Ancestry Timeline is.) It’s nearly impossible to identify from the DNA alone the date one of your ancestors was last “purely” from any one country or ethnic group. There are two issues in play.

First, our genes are wildly mixed up. While different ethnic origins can sometimes be assigned to different DNA segments, this only tells you about the background population from which those genes derive. It cannot on its own identify when a particular person came from that country. The article linked above gives the example that someone with 39% British Isles ancestry might have a parent from England, or, as is actually the case, a bunch of really distant British ancestors up several different lines. If genes from those people happen to be inherited in sequence on a number of different chromosomes, it might appear that the genes originated as a single unit in the recent past rather than the reality that a bunch of different segments were inherited from many different people who ultimately came from the same population centuries ago (i.e., roots in New England).

The second issue is historical. National borders that exist today did not exist a few centuries ago. Migration has always taken place. Putting these two together, you can understand how someone of French extract—let’s call her Angelique—might have a mix of genes that appear to the test to be Scandinavian and Mediterranean (Italian) rather than Western European. For Angelique, the current French border obscures the deeper history of Roman occupation and the Viking settlement in Normandy. Even if everyone in Angelique’s document-able family tree spoke French and lived in northern France, Angelique’s genes suggest that she happened to inherit more genes derived from Roman and Viking fore-bearers than, say, Germanic (Frankish) ones.

Taking this example one step further, it’s impossible for commercial DNA tests like 23andMe or AncestryDNA to determine on their own (without documentary evidence of some kind) whether Angelique’s Mediterranean ancestry in fact came from an underlying Roman genetic pool or instead originated in a smaller population descended from, say, a troop of Italian craftspeople who intermarried with the local French population after migrating to France to help build a 14th-century castle. The history is simply too complex and the DNA too fragmented to tell the difference without serious scientific study of particular genes or without much larger pools of historical DNA to compare with.

In the end, population history and population genetics make something like 23andMe’s ancestry timeline an impossible endeavor. It may make good marketing, but it doesn’t make valid history.